Note that at Match.com, you need to turn your invisible status on each time you log in.
That way, you avoid unnecessary emotional or verbal diarrhea and also keep your potential match interested.
On some sites, the person also knows that you deleted it.
Say that you’re in the middle of an Instant Messaging (IM) exchange, and you realize that the prospect just isn’t a match. And for the record, the inappropriate actions are Regarding those first two actions, your prospect would probably think you had computer problems and keep trying to reach you, which isn’t what you want. And regarding the porno action, sending pornographic material can be construed as harassment and get you into a heap of legal trouble.
Friday morning, Gawker reprinted a 700-word breakup email sent from an OKCupid enthusiast to a woman he had gone on all of three dates with.Spotting these people is tough because they seem so genuine and enthusiastic. They express assumptions about the depth of your relationship with them long before it’s appropriate.When your goal is to make a clean break from the person who won’t let go (or any prospect, for that matter), never argue or defend yourself.The site will then begin to monitor all your e-mail messages and kick you off the system if it doesn’t like what you’re writing.” Afterward, break off the communication.
From then on, your approach is no reply, no comment, no nothing. If you think you have a problem prospect, even if you’re anonymous, don’t feel uncomfortable reporting the situation to the site operator (usually under abuse or Webmaster).
You need to know how to dish out rejection in an appropriate way.